Concur B&D and some dry-fire in order. I agree you can't really see this from behind; coach from the side or a bit forward. One other thing in method of explanation is to consider that sometimes ladies process information differently. Thinking of TS' "controlled jerk" the words:
"Align the sights, and pull/press the trigger" imply 2 distinct things - the first breaks down as soon as focus shifts to the 2nd thing. This is the "average" coaching given by husband/boyfriend/father.
"While keeping the sights aligned, press the trigger" implies one must always be happening as the other is. If they're aligned when the break comes good things happen. I also explain why I use those words and have seen some light bulbs come on.
So are you saying that smacking her on the back of the head and making her do push-ups aint helping?
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