I actually coached a varsity soccer match (the head coach had to be out of town, and I as the assistant was tagged to coach against one of our fiercest rivals. What couldl possibly go wrong?) where one of my players knocked over a referee. Immediate red card of course, and the police were called in. He gave every reason...he was taking care of his teammate who the ref had screwed over, the other team was cheapshotting and nothing was being said, etc. The police didn't arrest him, but he was banned from the team, expelled from school, and took a very long time to get back on his feet.
The sport is just a tool to teach (or reveal) character. With one idiotic decision, that young football player has thrown away every second of hard work he put into his craft. The same thing happens in life. One bad choice can erase every good choice we've ever made.
Choices mean everything.
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“Critics are men who watch a battle from a high place then come down and shoot the survivors.”—Hemingway.
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