http://www.sos.virginia.gov/T0.aspx?PID=2
You can sign up to help online. They really focus on supporting the family, especially when soldiers are deployed.
Gov. McDonnell is a fmr Armor LTC and his daughter served in Iraq. Mrs. McDonnell has made this a big issue for her agenda.
Also if anybody would like further information I can try and get you in touch with the VA First Ladies coordinator.