Sdiver
04-01-2010, 20:20
I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision. I haven't been posting on here as of late, because I've been going through a VERY traumatic time in my life.
I don't mean to bring my problems here, but this is so important to me, and with the WEALTH of knowledge here on this board, I just had to ask for advice/help.
I’ve suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been cheating on me. The usual signs: Phone rings, I answer, caller hangs up. She started going out ‘with the girls’ a lot recently, although when I ask which girls, it is always "Just some friends from work, you don’t know them." I always look out for her taxi coming home, but she always comes walking up the driveway as I hear a car setting off…as if she had exited the car ’round the corner.
Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her?
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with her. I think deep down I just didn’t want to know the truth but last night, she went out again, and I decided to wait for her outside. I decided I was going to set up my hide site, behind my truck, which would give me a view of the whole street, so I could see which car she gets out of. I saw a vehicle come up the street, stop a few houses away from mine, and 2 people, one of whom looked a lot like my girlfriend, with another man, in a very passionate embrace. It was whilst crouched behind my truck that I felt my heart almost stop and my breath come in short gasps........I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.
Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?
I don't mean to bring my problems here, but this is so important to me, and with the WEALTH of knowledge here on this board, I just had to ask for advice/help.
I’ve suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been cheating on me. The usual signs: Phone rings, I answer, caller hangs up. She started going out ‘with the girls’ a lot recently, although when I ask which girls, it is always "Just some friends from work, you don’t know them." I always look out for her taxi coming home, but she always comes walking up the driveway as I hear a car setting off…as if she had exited the car ’round the corner.
Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her?
Anyway, I have never approached the subject with her. I think deep down I just didn’t want to know the truth but last night, she went out again, and I decided to wait for her outside. I decided I was going to set up my hide site, behind my truck, which would give me a view of the whole street, so I could see which car she gets out of. I saw a vehicle come up the street, stop a few houses away from mine, and 2 people, one of whom looked a lot like my girlfriend, with another man, in a very passionate embrace. It was whilst crouched behind my truck that I felt my heart almost stop and my breath come in short gasps........I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.
Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?