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Here is a story for you. When I was a 1st Lt, I was single, on birth control, and got pregnant. Now I had my sq/cc as well as my 1st Sgt and a bunch of other senior ranking officers tell me that it would be best for career if I had an abortion because being a single parent took a lot of effort, and would be distracting to my career. Sounds difficult to believe, but it is true.
My take was, I was the one who made the mistake, not the child I was carrying. So why should it have to pay for my mistakes? Had I a been a little more selfish, maybe that would have been the road I took. But my parents taught me to own up to my mistakes, and learn from them. So I was a single parent for 5 years, and guess what, it didn't effect my career in the least. Now my daughter is 11 years old and has been the light of my life from the moment I found out I was pregnant.
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afchic,
I'm not sure how I missed your post. Thank you and God bless you for making that difficult decision those twelve years ago. It took courage, intelligence, and a knowledge of self to do that in the face of all the advice you were given.
The young people I work with almost invariably seek the easy way out. They don't even consider the difficult, though correct, decision. Because of this, they miss so much.
I am sure that every time you look at your daughter, you thank God you decided the way you did. Again, thanks for sharing that story.