It is funny to hear new SF guys wives at a team party. Once my wife and several "old timers" wives were talking with a "new guys" wife when she asked "what do your husbands really do?" The reply was "Hell we don't know and we probably don't want to" A friend of mine from 5th SFG(A) told me his wife had no idea what he did for a living until her uncle told her that if he wore a green beret he was a real "killer". She thought all he did was humanitarian work. She didn't even know he carried a gun. My point is that most real SF guys don't do a whole lot of talking (other than lying to each other in the team room
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