Was a bit surprising.
So FS. You don't like being referred as a Miss, young lady, mademoiselle, madam (not THAT kind).
They could holler "Sie, Frau!!..............."
When I was there and conversing with cute little indigenous XX's, calling them fraulein worked quite well. Now that I drag some of the after action reports out of depths of my mind.
They could refer to you as 'kleines Fraulein'. That my elicit one of those screaming banshee coyote things.