Thread: Wife Ultimatum
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Old 12-08-2015, 15:20   #22
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Originally Posted by Dobi84 View Post
Ok, yeah I looked at it again and thought,

Sorry, I'm sort of in a similar boat but not. I'm married with 1 kid.

For me there was no discussion, ultimatum, or debate I basically told her my plans after the fact, and that was that.

My wife knows me and I'm very headstrong. I want this more than anything right now and based on my actions alone,(just ask my wife), there is no question about my commitment or priorities for that matter.

Some may think thats sad but it is what it is. If it's God's will than so be it.

Am I wrong for having this kind of mentality?
Yes, re-read the QP posts.

Family has to be part of the equation.
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