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Two thoughts:
If someone is knocking on your door asking for help, it is because they know you have the stuff to help them with. If they know and you trust them not to tell anyone else, they are an asset. Trust is worth more than gold in tough places.
If you don't trust them, you most likely have good reason. In which case everyone already knows you have stuff. Concerns about them telling are moot.
I am struck that some many people can use the word "friend" and "worthless" about the same person. If they are my friend, it is because I trust them. And I don't have many friends.
Bottom line: I would rather have someone with me that I trust who did not have a lot of skills then someone I did not trust who was an excellent fighter and the best mechanic in the entire world.
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