[Chairborne64]

That is the crutch of the whole argument, and BTW, the whole issue of trying to raise boys today. On the one hand hollywood will have me believe that women can kick ass and take on 20 men at once and walk away without smudging their lipstick. The current DoD leadership tells me almost the same thing yet I have to "change the culture" and treat women special. BTW their PT performance does not need to be the same as a man's because they are putting out the same effort if not the same result. Then I am told I have to raise my boys to treat women with kid gloves, but they are equal, but they have to be treated different, but you must treat them the same, but make allowances and change your culture, but we won't change the standards, etc....