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Originally Posted by mhaggart

And yes I am a "grown ass man," who realizes the experiences and knowledge of the men and women on this board vast surpass mine. Thus my question about marriage, something vary important in any mans life. Who does not ask for advice in situations such as this. Many of you have had careers in SF and will have good advice for me. Much of with is hard to hear. If you don't mind. If you want to add any more bitter posts to this threat just send me a private message, easier to find them, and laugh.

Gee dude, sorry. Welcome to our board I hope that you enjoy your time spent here and find the accommodations nice. Please feel free to ask if I can do anything for you, I'm here to help. Beer is in the fridge, let me pop the top for you. Pillow fluffy enough? If you count your cards right, my wife will be along shortly to square us both away

Get real Man. Do I come off callous and harsh at times? Yes, I'm in the Army (something you may find enlightening later). You asked and I supplied an answer. I'm working on my 3rd marriage in 20 yrs of service and figured I could add something.

Not that I'm an expert or anything, but I do know a thing or two about planning. I'm not the hottest at that either, but I do know what a shitty one looks like. Your's could use some refining. For instance your's doesn't take into account for the broken neck that you may suffer by crossing Boone's Fork in the dead of night. Walking the aisle may be a little humbling with a neck brace. Could make for a good story too, but what do I know?

I was trying to help. Take the advice or leave it. Makes no difference to me. Good Luck in your endeavors.