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It's a problem of expectations, an inability to establish boundaries, and unforgiving spirits.
Too many people expect others to recognize boundaries which they have not clearly communicated.
They go on racking up grudges against everyone in the world who ever might of offended them.
This pile of grudges leads to increased sensitivity, and they just rack up grudges even faster.
People need to speak up when something bugs them, and forgive what has already happened.
(However, forgiveness and trust are not the same thing...)
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Waiting for the perfect moment is a fruitless endeavor.
Make a decision, and then make it the right one through your actions.
"Whoever watches the wind will not plant; whoever looks at the clouds will not reap." -Ecclesiastes 11:4 (NIV)
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