Great thread. Glad to see so many opinions in one place. I, personally, in 28 years in the world of MA and combatives have only had two situations where physical force was warranted. They are both regrettable. The older I get the less I want to test my skills for real. I would rather attempt to pass on some of the wisdom I have gleaned in nearly forty years on this wonderful blue marble. That's why I teach now. And a great deal more goes into my classes than just the fighting part.
Don't get me wrong, I'm completely understanding and wired for VOA. Simply put, destroy your adversary. Sort out the rest after the dust settles, so to speak. Nearly any fighting system will do, as long as the right, violent mindset goes with it. Guess the medic in me keeps me balanced these days however...that and the right woman at home.
Looking forward to more from here. Thanks, guys.