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Handling Break Ups..
Hey all. I have talked to a few people that have been special forces for 15+ years prior to deploying and majority of them have gone thru multiple marriages. Well I am not in any group, but I am deployed. Two weeks after I got back into the BIAP area ater R&R, my girlfriend of 6 years whom I was going to propose to upon Demobing cheated on me with a Ranger and we have broken up and she has gotten together with him.
I was just wondering if any of you all have been in my shoes how did you effectively maintain focus on the day ahead and accomplishing the task ahead of you. It is tough out here because we are doing detainee ops 12 hours on 12 hours off and there isn't too much to occupy my mind with other than books. Any information, advice, or encouragement would be greatly appreciated. Just trying to effectively move on and the first step was to dedicate myself to preparing for SFAS and making contact with guys at 19th group in WA. I am looking to get rid of the relapses and memories which I keep thinking about. It sucks. I guess time heals all wounds, ehh. Sorry for rambling.
RB
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