The one thing that comes up again and again in many of those tips is....
ME ME ME ME ME
Its that same self promoting stance that is eating away at the military and is pretty damn disgusting to see it as the biggest learning points.
The only thing you need to focus on is to LEAD YOUR MEN, NOT YOUR OWN CAREER. They need to get over themselves and realize that they are part of something much bigger than themselves, and noone gives a damn they are a West Pointer.