Warrior-Mentor
06-20-2005, 22:29
Got a question the other day that wanted to share, especially in a forum like this, since different BTDTs will have different answers or spins on this...
Sir,
The opportunity to glean some wisdom from someone like you blows me away! I have less than two years of service; needless to say anything you have to offer will be digested. What would be your "Top Ten" things you would tell someone who is wanting to join SF?
SPC C - Korea
Great question.
Off the top of my head:
1. Get a copy of GET SELECTED. I'm biased, but then again, we took the time to write it just to help you prepare for SFAS...so take advantage of that. It's the conversation we'd have if you lived next door and we had the time to talk about it at length. It's available through the Special Operations Warrior Foundation at
http://www.specialops.org/news.asp#book
2. Commit to life long learning and self-improvement. Invest in yourself. Read books about SF. Get tapes sets or CDs to continue learning..great while road marching or running...it doubles the number of things you are getting done at once and takes the boredom out of long runs/rucks.
3. Find great mentors. Living or dead. Dead? Yes. Pick people you know and respect and learn all you can about them. Read their autobiography and biographies. Living...get to know them (if possible). Either case learn how and why they made decisions....try to figure out how they think and why they do the things they do. Have mentors for all the areas of your life (military, fitness, personal finance, etc).
4. Get into Sports. Football, Track, wrestling, karate, doesn't matter...something to push you physically.
5. Get outdoors. Hunting, camping, etc...get comfortable in the "woods." Fieldcraft skills pay off.
6. Learn to Land Navigate. (hand in hand with #5).
7. Have a vision for the future. Where do you want to be 10, 20, 40 years from now? What will you have done and accomplished. Will help you get through the hard times.
8. Know how to "eat the elephant." One bite at a time. Have the big goal, but know you'll get there one step at a time. You don't have to know the whole route from start to finish...you just have to keep reassessing where you are then correct.
9. Don't quit.
10. Don't get hurt. There are things you can do to help minimize your chances of getting hurt. Example, go rock climbing (rock gym) to learn how to move and climb...this paid dividends on the obstacle course and forearm strength (for holding onto ropes and the team events for carrying things).
Best of luck,
JM
warrior-mentor.com
Sir,
The opportunity to glean some wisdom from someone like you blows me away! I have less than two years of service; needless to say anything you have to offer will be digested. What would be your "Top Ten" things you would tell someone who is wanting to join SF?
SPC C - Korea
Great question.
Off the top of my head:
1. Get a copy of GET SELECTED. I'm biased, but then again, we took the time to write it just to help you prepare for SFAS...so take advantage of that. It's the conversation we'd have if you lived next door and we had the time to talk about it at length. It's available through the Special Operations Warrior Foundation at
http://www.specialops.org/news.asp#book
2. Commit to life long learning and self-improvement. Invest in yourself. Read books about SF. Get tapes sets or CDs to continue learning..great while road marching or running...it doubles the number of things you are getting done at once and takes the boredom out of long runs/rucks.
3. Find great mentors. Living or dead. Dead? Yes. Pick people you know and respect and learn all you can about them. Read their autobiography and biographies. Living...get to know them (if possible). Either case learn how and why they made decisions....try to figure out how they think and why they do the things they do. Have mentors for all the areas of your life (military, fitness, personal finance, etc).
4. Get into Sports. Football, Track, wrestling, karate, doesn't matter...something to push you physically.
5. Get outdoors. Hunting, camping, etc...get comfortable in the "woods." Fieldcraft skills pay off.
6. Learn to Land Navigate. (hand in hand with #5).
7. Have a vision for the future. Where do you want to be 10, 20, 40 years from now? What will you have done and accomplished. Will help you get through the hard times.
8. Know how to "eat the elephant." One bite at a time. Have the big goal, but know you'll get there one step at a time. You don't have to know the whole route from start to finish...you just have to keep reassessing where you are then correct.
9. Don't quit.
10. Don't get hurt. There are things you can do to help minimize your chances of getting hurt. Example, go rock climbing (rock gym) to learn how to move and climb...this paid dividends on the obstacle course and forearm strength (for holding onto ropes and the team events for carrying things).
Best of luck,
JM
warrior-mentor.com